Finally Friday
Restaurant Mishaps
Every once in a while, amusing situations happen when me and my American family venture out into our German surroundings. I’m going to collect those stories on this blog under the title “Tales for the ‘Schland”.
Tales from the ‘Schland: Zu Frieden
Language is important. Especially in a foreign country. It’s telling how different people respond to language misunderstandings. My husband and I have both studied German at various times in our lives and we are at various levels. When he is talking to a non-native English speaker, he does his best to convey the impression that everything will be alright. Me? I get nervous, shut down and forget all words in any language.
Down the street from our house is a corner restaurant with huge windows that we have to pass whenever we want to do anything fun in our life. We pass it on the way to the grocery store, to other restaurants, to the subway, to the park, you name it – we pass this restaurant. Like the ideal European restaurant, there’s outdoor seating and I have been known to steal a few glances of the diners both inside and outside of the restaurant.
Recently, we decided to try it out for ourselves. The weather was beautiful, so we sat outside. My husband ordered the carbonara, I ordered a simple salad and we all three enjoyed the bread. My husband’s carbonara was delicious. My fork couldn’t help but to gravitate to his dish repeatedly. I made the declaration that this will be on my list of carefully selected restaurants to take my parents when they visit. Then the bill came.
What a pleasant surprise. Not only is this delicious, but affordable too! When the server came to clear our plates she asked us a question. Maybe it’s because we’re Americans, we assumed she was asking if we wanted more food. My husband shook his head, waving his hands slightly over his licked-clean plate “Nein, nein (no, no)” and then put his hands on his stomach to indicate he was full. The server looked at us, and didn’t seemed to happy with that answer. We looked at each other, the look that couples share when they realize they may have said the wrong thing – just what did she ask us? We looked at her and she asked us the question again “Ja, Ja (yes, yes)”… if nein, nein made her upset, maybe ja, ja would be ok? Nope. She seemed to be angrier. As my husband tried to let her know in his limited German that we weren’t upset and I uncomfortably fumbled in my seat thinking “Just say “alles OK” (all is good – my go to response in many situations)” I couldn’t get anything out of my mouth. I just shook my head at him in a way to say – whatever you’re doing – stop!
Here’s a thing with most restaurants in Germany. The servers have a little wallet with all the change in it and when you pay your bill, they take care of it directly at your table. You tell them the total amount you are going to pay (so if it’s 10EUR and you add a small tip, you would say 12 EUR) and they give you the change directly. We paid our bill and tipped a generous-for-Europe tip (tipping is not as expected here as it is in the US). Instead of giving us our change right away, she went into the building and then came back with our change – all in small coins. It was the equivalent of receiving $3 in change in nickels and dimes with a quarter or two thrown in.
We had no idea what upset her. Was she upset because we didn’t want a dessert? Because we didn’t order wine? Because unlike the lady next to me I only ordered a salad and not a salad and a main meal? I mentally removed the restaurant from my list of places to take the parents and we just decided that this person just did not like us. Fine.
Then we got home and looked up the only word from the questions she asked us that I could remember – zu frieden. Satisfied. She had asked if we were satisfied, and my husband said no. Confused, she asked us, most likely, in the negative “You aren’t satisfied?” To which, my husband said yes. No wonder she was so upset at us. I’m upset with us!
Now, one of the most convenient, affordable and tasty restaurants – one that I have to pass everyday, must think we are really horrible, tasteless and rude people. Oh, boy.
Wordless Wednesday
Today’s a Holiday, too
In Germany, today is a public holiday. All Saints Day.
I thought I could take today and take a look at the goals I set forth for myself and my blog earlier last month.
BLOG MORE: I wanted to blog once a day and I have so far. Yay! I wanted to comment at least twice a day on other bloggers post and I do well more than that. I actually enjoy it a lot. I used to only read blogs, but now that I also comment so much, I feel like I’m having a better online experience.
MAKE 3 CRAFTS FOR MY SON: I made his Halloween costume and a counter-part for it. So 2 out of 3 is not too bad at all.
COOK SOMETHING PUMPKIN-Y: I wasn’t planning on doing this until later in November, so we’re good.
CREATE A RANDOMS JOURNAL: I cancelled this one. Turns out, all the little pieces of things I’ve been saving up have a home either in another existing album, a planned album, or the trashcan. I might do this another time, but now is not it.
MAKE 3 HOLIDAY DECORATIONS: My three holidays to decorate for were for Halloween, my son’s birthday and Thanksgiving. I have started birthday decorations, my Halloween “decor” ended up being a mini-album and I have a plan set for Thanksgiving (plus I made a gratitude journal).
I would say that I’m doing a good job of keeping up with my goals. I’ll check in at the end of the month/beginning of next month and look at my goals for the following few months.
Happy Halloween!
I was at the pediatrician’s office earlier. The pediatrician, who was not my normal one, asked me where we were from. I said the US. Then he looked at my son’s shirt that said “My First Halloween” and said to me, “Well, if I would’ve seen the shirt first, I would’ve known you were from America.”
Halloween is just not too popular here. There seem to be a lot of activities for the bar-hopping crowd, but not as much for kids. So, the only other way to tell that it’s the Halloween season:
Happy Halloween!!
Vacation Mini-Albums: Organization
Welcome to the last day of the Travel Turtle series on vacation mini-albums.
First, please know, I’m a minimalist packer. There is no mini-album in the world valuable enough to make me want to check my luggage just so I have space for my mini. This is what I would consider my must haves for mini-album supplies when I travel:
- A camera
- A pen
- The album itself
- A way to attach items to journal (usually a small tape runner)
- An envelope
- A hole punch if I’m doing a binder ring album.
- Stickers and labels
- Multiple ways to attach items to journal (staples, needle and thread)
- Journaling paper
- Stamp and Ink
- Pattern paper
- Scissors (only if I plan to check in my luggage anyway, otherwise, I just tear paper, use a punch or buy cheap scissors locally)
- Post it notes for place markers (photos you’ll add later, for example)
- A shape punch (usually a big circle)
- Before leaving for the vacation, make sure batteries are charged for all cameras and that the camera card is empty (or at least has adequate space for the photos you will take.)
- Upon hotel check-in, designate a spot as my temporary scrapping location (which is usually the desk). Unload all supplies onto desk. I will then immediately write about my impressions of the hotel, on hotel stationary.
- Before leaving the hotel grab your pen, hotel stationary and an envelope to collect anything from that day. I think it’s great if you can use a separate envelope for each day, even though you should be putting things in your journal as you go. It’s nice to know that if you don’t use everything, you still know exactly where it is.
- Whenever you’re back at the hotel (whether it’s for some rest in the middle of the day, or at the end of all the site-seeing) add something from the day to your journal. Put at least one thing in your album, regardless of how tired you are. If you followed some of journalling advice, you should already have journalling ready to go. Note the photos you want to include for that day (or just leave space for them). If you have more time, add more things, but don’t feel you need to add everything. Put the extras in the envelope, write the day on the outside of the envelope and know that you can go back to that later if you want to.
- Before checking out of the hotel, I like to go through my envelopes to see if there’s anything that really should be in my album that I didn’t get a chance to add earlier in the week. If there’s no space for it to fit in chronologically, I do an “out-takes” page or two. This is just for all the pieces and photos that don’t fit anywhere else.
- On my way back home, I will do the trip summary and unless I still have to develop photos (which I usually do), I can call the album done.
Vacation Minis: The Journaling
Welcome to day 4 of the Vacation Mini-Album series.
There’s one thing I realized while writing this series, and that’s that I like to get people involved in the mini-album while we’re on vacation. Yesterday, I mentioned a scavenger hunt that requires other people’s participation. Today, I want to talk about how to do the same thing with your journaling in a way that not only adds to the actual memories of the album, but will also make it easier to finish the album while on vacation.
To me, the journaling can be the most difficult part to complete. It’s time consuming, there are a lot of details that can be recorded because of all the new experiences, and it’s writing! The first thing to remember is that penmanship does not need to be perfect on these albums. Not at all. But, for your own sake, it should be legible.
When I first started making travel minis, I would bring various paper to write on. Then I realized how ridiculous it is to do that. There are so many paper options to write on, things with more character and evoke more memories of the place than any journaling paper can ever provide. What says the Eiffel Tower better than an admission ticket to the Eiffel Tower? No pretty stamp, sticker or piece of paper has the same effect as the real thing. So, pick up scraps during your day and write on those. Bring the SCRAPS back into scrapbooking. Things I’ve picked up and written on along the way: brochures, ticket stubs, business cards, take out menus, parts of flyers, maps, postcards… Do you have a lot to say? Most hotels have free stationary branded with the hotel’s name and even envelopes that you can include in your journal. Use those.
Make the journaling more inclusive by inviting your travel mates to write their own thoughts. Do it on the spot. Just finished watching a theater production of Les Miserables? Give everyone their tickets back and tell them to write down what they thought, what they liked, what they didn’t like. Walking around an amazing store that has a little bit of something for everyone? Grab one of the store’s business cards (or a few) and have everyone write what they want to get at this store. At restaurants, grab a take out menu, circle what everyone is eating and rate the food. At the end of the day, put all these little pieces directly in your journal and you are done. Use the hotel’s stationery to sum up the day if you have more to say, but you will find you probably don’t. (A note: using the same piece, for ex. multiple theater tickets, has the added effect of repetition which is an easy design element to work with as well.)
Again, there’s a little bit of preplanning I like to do before my trip. Like the photo scavenger hunt, I like to write a list of prompts that can help me think of things to write about.
- Counting: If I’m in a busy area, I like to count things that occur within a minute. In Amsterdam, I counted bikes that passed me. In New York, it was people that walked by the park bench I was sitting on and in China, it was how many car horns I could hear in a minute. In quieter places, I might focus my counts on something else like, how many boats are sailing by.
- Transportation: I like to write about the forms of transport I’m using and often will include the directions I wrote down to get somewhere in my journal. Or I’ll write what is repeated over the loudspeaker, or written around the stations. You can’t think of the underground in London without thinking of “Mind the Gap,” the Peter Pan ride at Disney repeating “Please step out to your left, step out to your left please, when the car stops, step out to your left,” and the car rental guy in Scotland telling me that my job as the passenger is to poke my husband in the shoulder when we get in the car and say “Stay to the left”!
- The Best Part about ____: This is an easy prompt for someone else to fill out. What’s the best part about this meal, this city, this tour…
- Speaking of tours, I like to write down some of the things tour guides say while on tours. Often, these are things that research won’t tell you, or are hilarious for other reasons. In Salzburg, our tour guide would point out a building and tell us it is the most important building in all of Austria. He would then continue to say the same about every other building in the tour.
- At the end of the trip, I like to make a “spreadsheet” of favorites and ask everyone what the best meal, drink, thing, shopping experience, whatever was. I usually include a list of 10 things that we’ll all answer. No, I don’t do this on the computer, but I do write it down.
- My favorite journaling technique for traveling: Haikus! This gives me an easy framework to work in and can sometimes be a bit challenging. It’s also makes time pass quickly, so when I’m at a train station and my train is delayed another 20 minutes – out come the haikus.
Vacation Minis: The Photos
Welcome to Day 3 of the mini-series: photos.
Unfortunately, there are many more talented photographers out there that can tell you how to take the best photos. I can’t tell you how to do that. In fact, since most of the people that read this blog are probably great memory keepers, there aren’t many tips I can give on that, either. You already know to get the details, the “everyday” vacation moments, get action shots. There’s a great post on Shimelle’s Blog with tips for travel photos. Instead, I’ll say something I just started recently that has helped to make the photo taking a fun, group event.
PHOTO SCAVENGER HUNT!!!
I first did this a little over a year ago. I wanted to create a scavenger list that I could easily use on every trip if I wanted to, so I made it generic. I can easily add more items if I wanted to do something a little more specific to the place. Here’s my list:
- A picture of each of us in front of a popular site: I change the number of pictures we need depending on the length of trip. A weekend trip calls for 2 sites, a weeklong trip needs 5 sites – this is negotiable.
- A picture of a meal: I am not a food blogger, but food evokes the senses of taste and smell and with the picture sight is there, too. With three of five sense represented in one photo, it’s a bargain!
- A picture of each of us posing like a statue, in front of the statue: This is more fun than I thought it would be. I actually now like to do this in front of most statues I see. And imagine the fun of posing like abstract statues.
- A picture of each of us that looks like the paparazzi is spying on us from afar: This is also so, so much fun. Since it’s from far away, there’s a lot of atmosphere in these photos. It’s always interesting framing as well, since we’ve usually done this in crowds and you have to time it correctly so that no one is walking in front of the “star”!
- A picture of something each of us thinks is funny: We like to get really obscure with this one. And I don’t think there’s anything more rewarding or journal worthy than a photograph that corresponds with something funny.
- A picture of each of us in our hotel room: I love hotel rooms and this is probably the only way I’d remember to take a picture in my room.
- A picture of the skyline: Sometimes I feel like I focus so much on the details, that I ignore the big picture. That’s what this one is about.
- A picture with more than one mode of transportation in it: In some places, this is more of a challenge (I have a little cheat for those places that I won’t share), but for most places there are always several modes of transportation whizzing by.
- A picture of a sign that is very whatever place we are in. (So, in France it would just seem like a stereotypical French word.): I just love languages, and this has to do with my language love. If I were in an English-speaking country, I would have to make some modifications, but it’s still possible.
- A picture with the name of the place we are visiting in it: The more, the merrier. I love the way this looks with one word in a bunch of fonts.
- A self-portrait: Specifically when you turn the camera onto yourself without a tripod. We do these as a family and these are my favorite photos.
- A reflection photo: I like to do these into windows when I’m traveling. I guess bodies of waters, car mirrors or other people’s sunglasses would work to.
- Combination of the above: For example, a self-portrait reflection in a deli-store front that’s name includes the name of the city we’re visiting, the deli display in the window and the reflection behind the self is a popular local site – with a bike in the photo and a train in the reflection… whew.
Vacation Minis: The Albums
The most important step for creating a mini-album for your vacations? Picking an album. This is going to dictate exactly what you can and can’t collect. What do I mean?
Here are things to consider:
- Size
- Type of Binding
- Paper-style
SIZE
TYPE OF BINDING
Bound Album
Above are a some of the interior pages of my bound albums.
Tips for Bound Albums
- Think of how much space you will realistically need. A 8×8 20 page album for a weekend at the beach means there will be a lot of white space in your album – which is ok, as long as you plan for that going in. A 4×6 10 page album for a round the world trip over the course of year may not be enough.
- Get a rough estimate of how many pages you can do each day maximum to fill out the album. Do you have the time to do that much? (I generally like to do a 2 page spread per day)
- If you find that you have more than you bargained for on a particular day and you don’t want to go past your self-allotted maximum number of pages, staple and layer!
- Keep an envelope to collect the items you get throughout the day when you don’t want to bring the whole album with you.
Adjustable Albums
Tips for Adjustable Albums
- Keep the color scheme simple. This is a good time to use paper from kits!
- You do not have to use a ring binder for this (thus, you do not need to punch holes). You can put the pages in page protectors when you get back if you like. If you do punch holes, make sure you bring your hole punch with you so you can add things directly to the ring binder without adhering to a page.
- This book can get thick quick, so you may want to have larger binder rings to change into once it fills up.
- Don’t be afraid to move things around to fit better than what you originally planned.









